How to Find and Flirt with Kik Boys

So you find an awesome guy on Kik and you are not really sure how to take things with him? Should you go really slowly or should you just assume he is into you and start off at your full-blown speed? The truth is – you don’t know yet. The only thing you can do right now is stick to subtle flirting so that you don’t come out too desperate or needy.

Here, we have brought you some tips on subtly flirting with Kik boys which would certainly take you to a long way. Read on to know more.

Start a Casual Talk

Don’t throw a message which the other person cannot think a reply of. And particularly, with the Kik boys, you cannot decide what level they are on. So it is always a good idea to just start with a casual talk and then build up the conversation. You can ask them in evening how their day was and if talking in morning you can just wish them to have a good day.

Don’t be Nervous

Just keep in mind that it is a texting platform. So if the other person does not want to respond to you, they will not get into an awkward situation. Instead, they just choose not to reply you back. So, what you have to do is stay cool and drop them a text. Then, just sit back and relax. However, if you don’t get a reply hours later, there is no need to worry or change your ways. There are plenty of other Kik boys waiting to hear from you.

Ask about Interests

Once you are done with the small talk, what is the next thing you can talk to the Kik boys? Well, you can ask them about their interests. It is always a good idea to ask people about their interests. It makes them feel that you are genuinely interested in knowing their interests. Plus, it is a very simple question to answer. If you ask them a question about rocket science, they might not know the answer. But if it is about their own interest, the answer would come in seconds. And hence, it would keep the conversation alive.

Crack a joke

If you think you have a good sense of humor, you are at an advantage here. Most if the people like other people who have a sense of humor. And, if you convince one of your Kik boys with that, it would be awesome. You can either send them a forwarded text or you can crack a joke yourself based on the situation. However, make sure that your joke does not offend anyone and is not against any religion or a social class. You never know who you are talking to and what after effects it might have.

Use Lots of Emoticons

Though guys are less expressive in general, they use emoticons a lot. And so, being a girl, you can use this to your advantage when talking with the Kik boys. Keep using lots of emoticons. Sometimes, when the entire sentence need not be written and you can just send an emoticon as a reply, do that. This would make the Kik boy into thinking that texting with you is fun. And you are a different kind of person. Remember, each conversation that you have with the Kik boys should be different. Only if you stay unpredictable, you would be able to keep things going.

Know when to Stop

If one of the Kik boys sends you a dirty response which you were not expecting, just back off. You can either choose to ignore him totally or just tell him politely “Talk to you later”. Then vanish. Keep in mind that some Kik boys are looking for nothing more than sexting. To them, having or not having a conversation is really unimportant. If you think you just came across such a kind of a guy and you definitely don’t want it, just let it go and don’t reply. It is always good to draw a line, it would help you in the long run.

Be the First Person to End the Chat

As a general rule of thumb, girls should be one to end the conversation, at least in the initial days of any relationship. So, if we apply that principle here, if you just started talking to some of the Kik boys, make sure that you are the one to say goodnight or a goodbye. Never wait for the other person to say that. It would increase your value and they would have something to look forward to for the next day.

If you have any other tips on how to talk to Kik boys, please share with us in the comments section below. It would help the fellow readers.

What are Kik Groups and how you can be a part of them?

Kik groups are nothing but chat rooms where people of similar interests can talk and share their views. This is not like a normal chat but a group chat where there would be more than two participants. Before the term public group came in, the Kik groups were popular by the name hashtags and it was then that people were crazy about it.

If you have an interest, for example, you are interested in Pokémon Go. And you want to look for other people who are interested in Pokémon Go, all you have to do is, type #PokemonGo in the search bar and see the magic. You would see a group with similar name and you can just jump into the conversation.

Public and Private Kik Groups

There are two types of Kik groups. The public ones and the private ones. When a group is public, anybody on the Kik platform can jump in and join the group. However, if you want only a particular set of friends to join the group and don’t want any interference, you can go for a private group. Keep in mind that when you create a private group, you have full control over the group. You decide who joins and who does not.

However, if you think you can do just about anything in public groups, you are wrong. There are certain community standards set by the Kik community and you have to be complaint to them. Otherwise, Kik might ban you from the groups. And if get banned very often, they might take some serious action against you. Better play safe and go through the community guidelines.

What you can do with Kik Groups

  1. Though there is a limitation on the number of groups you can create at a time, you get awesome features when you join groups. It is an amazing experience, so make sure you live it. Within a time period of 24 hours, you can create as many as 3 groups. To create a 4th group, you need to go beyond 24 hours.
  2. You can create a group of your interest. And then wait for people to join the conversation.
  3. You can search for a group and then join the discussion.
  4. When you join a group and start a conversation, you would notice that Kik provides badges to group members. Even that is fun.
  5. If you think a group is not right or is not filling the community standards, you also have the power to report it to the Kik community. And if it is your group and someone is not behaving, you can report group members as well.

How to Start a Private Kik Group

A private Kik group is where the owner has full control over who joins and who doesn’t. So, if you want such a group, follow the below steps to create it.

  1. First of all, go to the + icon.
  2. Then, click on the “start a Group” button.
  3. You will get an option to add which friends you want in the group. You can make multiple selection here. Just tick the friends you want and leave the rest.
  4. Though it is not mandatory, you can choose a group picture and a group name.
  5. On the top right, there would be a “start” button. Just tap on it.
  6. And voila, the private group is ready. Happy private texting!

How to Start a Public Kik Group

The basics of starting a private and public group are same. The difference comes only when you have to select who joins the group. So, follow the below steps if you want to start a public group on Kik.

  1. First of all, click on the + icon.
  2. Then, choose the option “Public Groups”.
  3. Again, tap the + icon.
  4. Then again you get the option to select a picture and the name for the group. We would advise you to add it this time because you actually want your group to appear attractive so that people can join. Also, you have to think of a # name for your group.
  5. You can invite friends you want to the group. You can also skip this step if you are not concerned what friends should join the group.
  6. Then, click on “Start”.
  7. And your public group is ready. Happy Public texting!

There is also an option to share the Kik code of the group. It is an amazing feature if you know how to use it. First of all, you have to open the group conversation and then click on the Group name. You will see an option “Show Kik code”. Click on this option. There, you would find the share option besides it. Once you share it on your profile, you friends can scan the code and join the group.

Let us know your views about the Kik groups in the comments section below.