So you find an awesome guy on Kik and you are not really sure how to take things with him? Should you go really slowly or should you just assume he is into you and start off at your full-blown speed? The truth is – you don’t know yet. The only thing you can do right now is stick to subtle flirting so that you don’t come out too desperate or needy.
Here, we have brought you some tips on subtly flirting with Kik boys which would certainly take you to a long way. Read on to know more.
Start a Casual Talk
Don’t throw a message which the other person cannot think a reply of. And particularly, with the Kik boys, you cannot decide what level they are on. So it is always a good idea to just start with a casual talk and then build up the conversation. You can ask them in evening how their day was and if talking in morning you can just wish them to have a good day.
Don’t be Nervous
Just keep in mind that it is a texting platform. So if the other person does not want to respond to you, they will not get into an awkward situation. Instead, they just choose not to reply you back. So, what you have to do is stay cool and drop them a text. Then, just sit back and relax. However, if you don’t get a reply hours later, there is no need to worry or change your ways. There are plenty of other Kik boys waiting to hear from you.
Ask about Interests
Once you are done with the small talk, what is the next thing you can talk to the Kik boys? Well, you can ask them about their interests. It is always a good idea to ask people about their interests. It makes them feel that you are genuinely interested in knowing their interests. Plus, it is a very simple question to answer. If you ask them a question about rocket science, they might not know the answer. But if it is about their own interest, the answer would come in seconds. And hence, it would keep the conversation alive.
Crack a joke
If you think you have a good sense of humor, you are at an advantage here. Most if the people like other people who have a sense of humor. And, if you convince one of your Kik boys with that, it would be awesome. You can either send them a forwarded text or you can crack a joke yourself based on the situation. However, make sure that your joke does not offend anyone and is not against any religion or a social class. You never know who you are talking to and what after effects it might have.
Use Lots of Emoticons
Though guys are less expressive in general, they use emoticons a lot. And so, being a girl, you can use this to your advantage when talking with the Kik boys. Keep using lots of emoticons. Sometimes, when the entire sentence need not be written and you can just send an emoticon as a reply, do that. This would make the Kik boy into thinking that texting with you is fun. And you are a different kind of person. Remember, each conversation that you have with the Kik boys should be different. Only if you stay unpredictable, you would be able to keep things going.
Know when to Stop
If one of the Kik boys sends you a dirty response which you were not expecting, just back off. You can either choose to ignore him totally or just tell him politely “Talk to you later”. Then vanish. Keep in mind that some Kik boys are looking for nothing more than sexting. To them, having or not having a conversation is really unimportant. If you think you just came across such a kind of a guy and you definitely don’t want it, just let it go and don’t reply. It is always good to draw a line, it would help you in the long run.
Be the First Person to End the Chat
As a general rule of thumb, girls should be one to end the conversation, at least in the initial days of any relationship. So, if we apply that principle here, if you just started talking to some of the Kik boys, make sure that you are the one to say goodnight or a goodbye. Never wait for the other person to say that. It would increase your value and they would have something to look forward to for the next day.
If you have any other tips on how to talk to Kik boys, please share with us in the comments section below. It would help the fellow readers.